Thanks JDV. Yes, counseling is on the table. We haven't started yet, but the desire is there for both of us. One of the positive things she did say was that she is ready to get to counseling ASAP and move past this chapter in her/our life.
Is she really READY for counseling??...now that is another question altogether. Can she really be ready to heal with me when she is not even past her withdrawal of OM??