I'm on the other side of this, my W had the A and shes come back completely different. In all the time I've know W I've tried to be gentle and caring when we ML and she used to lay there not making a sound or moving a muscle. Now after this A I'm finding that what she really wants is a good hard f*** and me to call her a few filthy names.
She may have already had this in her, but her A with OM has brought it out and now she's brought it home to me. How do I feel, well I knida feel I need to live up to or do better than OM, but in all the stuff I've read I know that is not what W would want. She'd want me to do it my way. Think you would agree on that.
So unlike your H I'm not going to ask for details cos I wouldn't want to be left with any feelings of inadequacy. I'm gonna bite the bullet and accept that my W wants me to fulfil her fantasies my way and not try to measure up to OM.
