Just thinking about it, I think I may have actually dropped the bomb myself !!! LOL
What I mean is, we were supposed to be making a go of things (though I don't really think my wife was, but was agreeing through the guilt of her night out episode), but my paranoia and snooping got the better of me, hence I started the conversation whereby we said we were no more. Strangely, I actually feel better now than I did the few weeks before as I got to the bottom of some stuff and at least I know where I stand now. Before it was just to confusing as W was saying one thing, then acting in a totally different way.
Just read Mr Mom success story. Superb post, will make sure I read some more of them.
I'm by nature quite a positive person and am the type of bloke that is everyones friend and no one has a bad word to say about me. Well, certainly I was til the kids came along and then I lost some of me. We had little family support for time for us which hasn't helped (and W even agrees with this), but I'm totally working on getting back the pre kids me without taking away the being the best dad in the world I can be !!!
I'm going to try and do regular updates on this thread, so when any situations arise, I can get some advice soon after the event.
Oh, I've already stopped the checking in lunchtime phone calls !!
