I read your first post and it read to me exactly as you explained it the second time. I don't think anyone thinks you are implying you are enjoying the 'drama' of the sitch.
Although we know what a great place this is, we also know we would all rather we weren't in the position where we had ever had the need to find this place. Having said that - I have met some fantastic people through here and they have done as much for me, if not more, than many hours of therapy!!!
husband - I'm watching you!!!!
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength