Show them your determination to stay on a good path and also to continue to value and fight for your marriage. They will remember this.
Cinders, my kids are now seeing this and looking up to me for this. Other woman has intruded on their life with dad, but they can count on me and me alone being there for them. They feel safer and more at "home" with me. The newness of OW is wearing off really quick for my kids. Ex had built her up to be bigger than life and they are finding out that she (excuse my description) farts like the rest of us.
They are also seeing through her sweetness and seeing other motives involved, i.e. money, marriage, trips etc...
What goes around comes around it just takes time. I promise. Kids are very smart, even when they are as young as yours.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
