Just a quick update for you all. My atty appointment is scheduled for today. I am still going. Not to file, but to get the process started.
My W came to me and told me it is over with him. We wrote him a no contact letter. She has agreed to never have contact with him again. She agrees to go to counseling. She agrees to transparency.
So, was it just reality setting in for her? Was she just scared? I think so.
All I have wanted this whole time was a fair chance to work on the issues of our marriage. Now it appears I will get that chance but................
....now I am not sure if I want it.
My love for her is almost gone. I didn't get any 'ILY', 'I am sorries', or anything like that.
I got compliance, not a committment.
It just leaves a bad taste in my mouth. All along I thought there would be an "ah-ha!" moment where she wakes up, and comes back and tells me what a great person I am, how she is so sorry, etc. I got none of that.
So, I suppose I need to continue to swallow my pride and let her 'get over' her man and just wait until she is really READY to come back to the marriage for the sake of commitment.
