She did go back with another man which kinda started this all rolling and the reason I started the conversation where we said we were over was as I found she still had his number on her phone. However, he is in a relationship and she swears they did not sleep together the night she went back and I believe her. Why ? Because I've asked so many times and she no longer has reason to lie, which I have told her. She also said they had a few texts soon after but nothing more recent and she hasn't had the opportunity to see him as she's not been out.
I'm trying hard with the snooping but it's difficult as I know she is telling people stuff and you just want to know. However, whenever I find anything, it's never any good for me I know and this should actually be relatively easy to sort.
We are supposed to be playing happy families for the kids while I'm still in the house and as we have some holidays already booked coming up, on which was strangely booked after her night with OM. However, W is beings super irritating whereby she will put me on a spot that I either bite and defecd myself or look weak to my kids. That is tough, but i'm working hard on it.
