I'm not talking about the whole book, but the first chapter on here re why Divorce is never the answer unless there is abuse etc. I just feel she is speaking to the wrong people (friends) that don't really know me awat from her and therefore their opinions are based on helping her be happier now. Basically, that chapter 1 is the sitch I find myself in.

Ping - Just been through your post start to finish, sounds like your making progress. I love this place already, helping me so much in knowing what to do and I realise I reacted wrong to my wife winding me up last night.

Oh - I was going to pm someone yesterday, but don't seem to be able to...any ideas anyone ?