I'm really annoyed it will take 14 days for Amazon to get book to me, hopefully that is just managing my expectations. I will no doubt read it in a couple of evenings highlighting bits and go back over it again.
Yes, I do still want to save this marriage. A lot of my friends find this odd due to the way my wife is and has been, but I know the other side of her they don't see.
Had a backwards step last night and a bit this morning, little heated discussion but I think that was her being awkward due to not sleeping. She is trying to rile me into arguments and i'm finding it a bit tough at the moment. also, seeing her laughing and joking with friends on the phone is tough as it's as if nothing is wrong. It's going to be a long road.
Any ideas how we can get our S to read chapter 1 or DR ? Has anyone sent to them from here on e-mail ? The reason I say that is that it is just so good and makes you want to try so it might have the same affect on my W.
I would not send it to my spouse or try to get them to read DR or DB. Those books are for you to work on you. You can't fix her you can only fix or change what you are doing. I would not point her to this site. She may take it as pressure and it may push her that much farther away. Just my opinion.
