Dear Kolle, the DR book will give you the tools or skills that you need to handle your situtation. For right now, the best thing is not to discuss D or any part of the R. She is going to rebell more and more as you try to point out to her everything that is wrong in what she is doing. Just try real hard not to discuss your MR at all. That will be the hardest thing for you at this point, but it is vital to keep your mouth closed. If she should start to vent or rage about you or the R, just try to validate her feelings by listening to what she is saying to you without interrupting her. Hard, I know, but nod your head and just tell her you are sorry that she is so unhappy with the stitch or the M or whatever. But, don't get into a disagreement with her.....just listen. If she gets too out of control, you may have to just walk away until she calms down. There is a place here on the board that give the things to do while you are waiting for the book. I will try to find it and tell you where it is. Have you been reading the other articles here by Michelle? All of it will help you as you are waiting. I'll go now to look for it and then come back and tell you where it is.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
