TY last 2 responses.

I'm really annoyed it will take 14 days for Amazon to get book to me, hopefully that is just managing my expectations. I will no doubt read it in a couple of evenings highlighting bits and go back over it again.

Yes, I do still want to save this marriage. A lot of my friends find this odd due to the way my wife is and has been, but I know the other side of her they don't see.

Had a backwards step last night and a bit this morning, little heated discussion but I think that was her being awkward due to not sleeping. She is trying to rile me into arguments and i'm finding it a bit tough at the moment. also, seeing her laughing and joking with friends on the phone is tough as it's as if nothing is wrong. It's going to be a long road.

Any ideas how we can get our S to read chapter 1 or DR ? Has anyone sent to them from here on e-mail ? The reason I say that is that it is just so good and makes you want to try so it might have the same affect on my W.