Thank you for your posts, you are really a big help. I will definitely finish the books while I wait for DR to arrive. As I said, if anything can give me more insight in our dilemma or make the odds of our M being saved slightly better I would pay anything!
What you said about cutting my nose is so true: Everytime I try to initiate any sort of rational discussion about D and its effect on the people who love her the defences come up like the spines on a porcupine's back. Sarcasm, anger, irony, you name it. It seems there is just no way that rationality can get through at all. Lately I have been thinking there must be some stealth way to get in under the radar and deliver a payload without getting all the defence mechanisms going. The thing is I just don't know how.
Hopefully DR will give me some ideas...
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