Ken, I hope your son's surgery goes well. My thoughts are with you at this time. Try to detach from W and focus on your kids. They both need you. Do not let her drag you into her unhappiness. I'm sure it will be a very stressful week for you but you have to be the stronger parent right now. Hang in there!
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