no CF you are right to be a little mad. my wife actualy made me cry today while she was over because she noticed there was dirt on a few dishies i had washed. i am a domesti buffon and only in the last few months have i entered the domestic realm. i was so proud i had the dishes and laundry done when she came over, as well as the living room dusted and picked up. but when she called me on the dish i had to excuse myself and cry in the bathroom because i just wanted the effort noticed and not the mistakes. God she calle sme on so much crap now and says " see you never will change" imj trying to damn hard but only my flaws are noticed. i just want to be seen as a H not a enemy. sorry for the ramble.