i mean if your going to talk to someone, mabey ask to talk to a detective. that way a report will be done but you wont have to worry about reguler joe cop telling all of his partners that tree is haveing problems with Ms. Tree. your still covering your butt but the its less likely your W will find out.
right now she seems much like my wife. shes bound and determined to see wrong. going to the police with evidence she might be a domestic abuser or tapes that infer this would totaly justify in her eyes her feelings to you. mabey even have your L make a letter to send and have him drum up a draft to send to the police but be very carefull about how you do this.