I may take a beating for what I am going to say but here goes.

I LOVE WHAT YOU SAID....

It shows confidence, boundaries and direction.

I see nothing wrong with what you said. It was not sarcastic or mean. It was too the point and what you need.

If you usually don't say those types of things it is a good 180.

It also shows major respect for yourself.

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11