H,

I didn't want to mention it, but I am always insulted when a man refuses to drive 3 1/2 hours to see me on a moment's notice. Reminds of the time my toilet wouldn't flush and I had a handsome carpenter working in the house. I asked him to plunge the toilet. He refused. Said he could fix anything else, but not a stopped up toilet. I plunged it myself and called my friend and told her, "that's it. I've lost my sex appeal. I can't even get a man to plunge my toilet any more."