Jenny, we are all here for you. It sounds like your H is possibly scaring you (with going to court) into giving more as far as custody goes. I don't know the entire sitch, but it seems odd that he is so determined to have, is it 50/50 or 60/40? I can't remember, sorry. Stand your ground and don't be bullied. I know you can do that. I've seen it in you time and time again. This week will be over and those hurdles will be jumped. There will be more hurdles, obviously, but I have total faith in you and your ability. You're a very smart woman and you are extremely level headed. Keep me posted. And, again thanks for the 2 X 4's on my thread. They helped.


M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him