we had a fight today. we actualy had a good afternoon hanging out and flirting. well we were going to a going away party for one of my co-workers and we were taking two cars incase i stayed late as i was going to work anyway and i would stay there untill i worked.
as she was walking to her car my W stated "Marcum you need to clean your car out its discusting and i shoulnt have to tell you thast. its realy gross and its been like this for years. " she was gathering steam and kind of attacking me sio i said " honey your right it wont be like this anymore" she responded " ive told you a hundred times..." so i interupted her and said " please stop i understand it wont be like this any more."
well she called me on the way to the party to tell me she was hurt and felt i was rude for interupting her. she told me she feels like i never change and i once again was not letting her finish her thoughts. i appologised and we hung up.
well she called back again and told nme to pull over and grab the food out of her car as she didnt want to go to the party anymore. i explained to her i had no idea whay she was so mad. i told her i wasent trying to interup her and i was taking the critisisim as constructive. i stold her to stop because i wanted her to know i understand. i also stated i wasent makeing excuses for myself but right away agreeing that i needed to clean out my car.. it went on like this for 3 minutes before she calmed down and came to the party.
she was standoffish the rest of the night. she also explained that she has no patience for me anymore. guys i dont know what to do. i truly dodnt defend myself anymore but these attacks are so painfull espesily when they comw out of no were like this one did. we were having a good night and then bams she takes offence because i agree with her to fast. i told her i will sit and listen as long as she wants me to from now on. God i just dont know what to do right
