Happy to provide such an interesting dynamic here. Although I would much prefer to have never needed to find this message board, it is what it is and we will make the best of it. I'm just hoping that we can help others as we try to help ourselves. The people on this site definitely have given me much support and advice, and it does provide a good way to get certain things out in the open.
I try to be as honest as possible, but I do find it hard to not filter my thoughts to some extent. Not that I'm being misleading in my posts, its just that I think twice about what I'm posting.
I was afraid my post would sound like I was hooked on the drama. I'm so very sorry if that's how it read. I don't know how to go back and edit after it's been posted for a while.
Anyway, I just wanted to be clear that my interest was in how you and your wife seemed to have such honest, open communication. I have a non-verbal communicator for a husband and it's refreshing (although under dreadful circumstances) to see your willingness to be open.
My heart goes out to both of you. I sincerely hope you two can find your way back to each other.
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence