Nut, I feel I need to mention it to the parenting evaluator just because I am concerned w/ its impact on D. I am supposed to let him know everything that concerns me and then let him decide how to decipher it.
I spoke w/ D tonight for over 14 minutes after W had called early and told me "she isn't feeling well and probably won't be too talkative b/c she's growing and her legs hurt."
Well, D got on the phone and cheered up in a hurry so we had a wonderful conversation. The only downer was her talking about OM using his pseudo-name, but it was really great to hear her laugh, giggle and create. I had conversations w/ her, with her dolls Cinderella and Ariel, as well as her big brown stuffed dog.
I heard W tell D "tell Daddy I need to talk to him when you are done" but D told me goodnight, she loved me and to have sweet dreams, then hung up the phone. W didn't call back and I'm not calling her either.
That is what I've got so far. No e-mail update or return on my request to have her spell out that she'll be satisified w/ our possessions being split and not want compensation later on.