PH and others: Do what is in your heart with regard to standing and realize that others feel while their intentions are good, they do not understand.
Just keep praying and believe me, you will see progress at some point.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19