I am just normally a friendly and now that H has moved out--happy person! and I act with H just like I do everyone else, happy and friendly. I do try not to email him or call him ever unless I have to re: the kids. I try to have him do the visits & emails and then I just reply to the emails that I have to, that require an answer (although I am not always successful!! \:\) I am trying to detach as much as possible and focus on me and my kids b/c otherwise the situation would be too painful!!! Karen

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