Well, I didn't apologize. Not going to because I don't want to look wishy washy. I didn't say them as harsh...at least I hope not but it was e-mail so who really knows...as they seemed here. I summarized for you here...it was about 4 e-mails total.
What I meant was...if he wants to talk to me...come to me and talk. Stop setting me up to talk to me. He doesn't want to talk to me...he wants to "have" a talk with me. When he just wants to talk he comes into the room I'm in and asks...do you have a minute so we can talk? So what's "the" talk about?
Unfortunately I have seen some major changes but I know he's still in contact with her daily and I know he sees her daily. He also works out of her house several times a week - I mean goes to her house and does work on her computer for his company. Gag!!! So I don't see why we have to "talk" if this relationship doesn't appear to have changed...unless he is leading her along and doesn't want to make it a "quick" conversation.
The changes I have seen are - he's much nicer to me than he was a year ago. The venum is gone - completely gone...I can't even make him mad anymore. He's taking care of the house more now. He's signed my b-day card "love always." He went to dinner with me and my parents and my girls (yep 2nd marriage) and more of my family. He sent me an e-card on Easter, Valentine's Day and my birthday. He was being so nice to me one day I asked him why and he said he was just being a friend. Today he told me to have a nice week (he's on travel). Told me that twice.
Scares me because he's being so nice. I wonder what he wants...besides to "talk."
So, even though I think I blew it yesterday today things seem to be the same.
