Hi Ping...just catching up with you! Glad to see you are attempting to detatch and GAL!! Awesome my friend!! \:\) Have you set any goals for yourself? One of my very first goals was to be back home with my H by Jan 2008.....that's one to laugh at....a) it didn't happen b) it didn't happen because it was WAY to big of a goal!! So now my goals are a little simpler!! I think you get the picture!!! \:\)

As hard as it is for all of us, patience, GAL, and not talking to our S about the very thing that is driving us all to these boards, we do it...and now you are too! It's a crazy roller coaster ride, and we're all ready to get off of it and stay off!!! Keep doing what you're doing. Stay focused and motivated! The more you push, she will push back. My DB coach told me to put down the rope, like in tug of war, when our S, has no one to tug with or at, things will start to change. It takes time and patience. You can do this, and you are!

take care my friend
Christa

H-32
Me-29
T-10years
M-4yr (10/04)
Me- WAW 1/07
I filed for D 2/07
D put on hold 5/07
H re-files for D 9/08
WOW! trying MC 10/08

"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"