Actually, it is our feelings that are neither right or wrong. Our thoughts can be wrong. Perhaps you think W is with OM right now. That is a thought, and it is wrong. On the other hand, the way you feel when you think of W with OM, that is your feeling and you are entitled to feel however you actually feel. Wife should not say, "You should feel happy about that because...." We can't tell each other how to feel, but thoughts are a whole different ball of wax.
