Im trying so hard to be detached and "not care" about what he is doing..I try..and most dyas I'm pretty darn good at it but last few days have been tough...
He is hot and heavy with is OW and is in "love". Her H already has another girlfriend. (this is all through another source), She has 8 yr old twins and he sneaks in after they go to bed and out in morning. Yuck. He defends her. He thinks shes wonderful and even if he wasnt with her..he wouldnt want to be married to me...Honestly we were happy.
They work togther and again, she is his superior. Not good. I want his work to find out sooo bad as it would take the shine off. I know hes very nervous about this. His financial situation is a mess. He left 6 months ago today, doesnt want respsonsibility blah blah blah.
I guess she told her neighbors that she and her H are seperated but she is seeing someone else now. UHG. Again.
Never in a zillion years did I think my H would or even could do this to us. Im GALing and doing my DB. I'm sure my situation is no differnt than any others..I just feel so hopeless right now. So very hopeless. My friends are hopeless and think Im nuts. he is just a freaking mess and Im the only one that notices..ok his dad and sis too...yes I'm rambling..lol. He has vomited out the whole divorce thing however has done nothing..as the script goes..
Any words of encouragement for us...we are praying everyday for our H and father. He only has contact with my yougest daughter at this point. Im trying tobe strong and usually am..Just not so much now...
M 44 H 44 M 22 yrs D 20 D 16 D 13 Bomb 1 8/25/07 Bomb 2 9/30/07 Left 10/01/07 OW..yup
Me? I'm scrambling to save my family. My H is just scrambling.
