Give yourself time. Time to heal. Time to become whole again.

If children are involved, love them and let them know ALWAYS that they are loved. Look for new things to do. What GAL things did you want to do before? DO THEM!

This is your time to find out who you are. On your own can be scary but it's also exciting. Don't just look at the curses of divorce. There are also blessings.

Journal - a lot. A year from now you will review that and wow......you will see so many changes.

Don't rush into a relationship. Don't automatically log on to match.com. TIME.

Overall, I think time is the best thing.


....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am
I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon
~ Avril Lavigne ~
..."Nobody's Fool"...

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