Ok, Neecy. It's nothing personal, lady, but I'm going to give you a little swat on the behind. \:\/

Originally Posted By: neecy22
This is probably not going to happen tonight, but time will tell.


No, hon. YOUR ACTIONS will tell. Not time.

Nobody expects you to do anything right this very minute, but something certainly has to happen soon, and again, it is YOUR ACTIONS that will determine everything. As stated before, H does not take anything you say seriously because you have not followed through.

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H is just leaving work now, I thought he was getting off at 6 so I could either get him to go down there by himself, with me or I was going. He won't be home till close to 9 and I feel wrong showing up there after that. I am half certain that is why he stayed late.


Now, I am NOT trying to get you worked up, but are you certain he was at work til then?

Just saying it's possible he could be coming up with excuses in order to avoid the dreaded talk with his parents. H knows you want to do this, and I think we all know he does not.

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell