After 3 long years, H is home

[ACJ]

would never suggest to anyone to go out and date if they are S'ed from their H/W, and if I gave that impression in my previous post, I apologize. It was not my intent at all.

I never thought for one moment that you were suggesting I go out and date. I just posted my current sitch and feelings. If I made you feel uncomfortable then I too apologise.

H came to me, rather frequently, always saying he wanted to work things out

My H has NEVER done this in all the time he has been left which is why I have very little hope of him returning. All I can do is leave it in God's hands now. I know I need to do something different but at the moment don't know what that should look like.

Thank you for your story and I really do hope things continue to go well for you and your H.