Thank you lwb. I know it will gt better but it will never happen soon enough.
Originally Posted By: lwb
Tell him to pick the days he wants to see the kids, and then tell him he has to stick with those because you will be making plans.
That is what we had agreed upon but now he wants more. Basically he wants me to stay home 24/7 and take care of the kids so he can do whatever he wants. He wants to take care of the kids when he wants to do it and doesn't want me to get my own life. He will pay for everything as long as I keep my mouth shut. That is what our marriage was! I can't keep doing it.
Me BS 30 Him WH 32 Kids 9, 4 and 2 Together 12 years DDAY#1 9/30/05 False reconciliation DDAY #2 3/13/08 blindsided