If you said, "You know, right now this is actually alot more emotional than I thought it would be, it is alot harder. I need some time, it is hard to see you at the moment, I need some time to adjust. Can we do this later?"
Would that work?
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Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
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