I'd love to do it too, but unfortunately it will end up being counter-productive and harmful for my divorce process. I also can't do anything to put my little D in the middle of my issues w/ W. She doesn't deserve me bad-mouthing her mother or kicking the crap out of the OM (which would be difficult as he's a huge, buff Army guy).
I have to remain confident this painfully slow court system will get it right and my D will eventually see who I really am and not the person her mother paints me out to be.
RTL PS - It is ok to fantasize about beating the tar out of the OM, isn't it?