Well, he's down again. He stopped in for dinner and pulled me outside and starting laying into me. I know i should have just walked away but I just didn't. I didn't cry though. He said its not fair that I make him take the kids half the time and he has no free time because he's working and I'm nothing but a heartless bitch and he's so glad he'll finally be away from me. He'll pay the bills but I better not touch any of "his" money. I just said its not his money yet, its ours. Funny how he has always said that no matter what me and the kids would never have to worry about money but now when i don't do what he wants me to do he tries to hold it over my head. I tried to stay calm but I was obviously flustered.
I guess i better go my own accounts tomorrow.
Me BS 30 Him WH 32 Kids 9, 4 and 2 Together 12 years DDAY#1 9/30/05 False reconciliation DDAY #2 3/13/08 blindsided