I understand what you are saying, Patti, but he and I had many, many talks before he moved back home, and based on his schedule, there really is not anything that says he is seeing her. I know he is not based on the time he comes home from work which is way before she gets off work.

We had a very long and serious discussion about this and because adultery is serious, he could not go thru that again because from a spiritual perspective, God is really working on his mind type thing.

I do trust him but I realize and understand that some contact is normal however, he has not seen her since he moved out of there.

The main thing is that we have talked way before he came home.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19