It is perfectly ok to say that to him.

You are not 'giving' him any power by doing so. In fact you should feel empowered by telling him so.



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Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet