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[girlfromipanema]

Your situation is just so incredibly difficult to fathom. Your H's stance that "this will work it out on its own" and "not believing MC" will help seem inconsistent. Perhaps Retroville could be of help. I don't know much about it, but have read several success stories directly tied to their experiences at Retroville. Others on this site may be able to give you advice on how to convince your H to agree to attend Retroville.

I wish you the best of luck with your very unique situation.