Mh H tells me that in time we will spend more time together. He says that he wants in the fuure for us to be able to do things together BUT we both need our space right now. He said he wants to spend time with D right now but he will be asking me to join them in the future. I told him its ok because I need time for Me too.
I think it will be good to have some space, but I know that right now what the kids want more than anything is for us to do the normal things we always have done. I went to H's apartment yesterday because S4 was missing me. When I walked in the first thing S4 said was "Look Mommy! We are all together!" He was so excited. My fear with continuing this way is that H will get comfortable with this, and he will NEVER want to do anything as a family. Am I wrong for worrying about that? None the less, for now I am going dark. If he wants space, I'm gonna give him tons.
