Okay, I'm an oldtimer, but what's with the terminology? I used to say my WAH was in MLC......
And, Cinders, I do think you still have not detached, which will be like your H is nothing but your kids' dad. It will help and it's the right thing.
Not sure what advice is given these days, but we used to say to detach, treat your spouse like the UPS guy. This is to keep the emotions from going either way.
Give this to God... you still haven't, you know. Not that I don't understand, I was a VERY slow learner.
