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I just don't understand why he says that he wants to be friends for the kids, but he will not actually do it.


I think our Hs are reading from the same script Lori. My H tells me that in time we will spend more time together. He says that he wants in the fuure for us to be able to do things together BUT we both need our space right now. He said he wants to spend time with D right now but he will be asking me to join them in the future. I told him its ok because I need time for Me too.

Try to make it about you because this space is good for you too. Give him time to come to you. I've been a bit dim but I may get even darker myself.

Jen

Last edited by JenInVen; 04/01/08 09:57 PM.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

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