sb,

I'm so sorry that you are going through this.Please take a breather and relax. I know how hurt you must be.

It seems he is very up and down. Sounds like my H. Is so hard to try and figure out where the heck they are coming from sometimes.

No, don't blame yourself for not seeing this. this is not your fault. You love him, of course you miss him, but you don't miss the person he's become.

You need to concentrate on you and the kids. Do things for you and keep your distance.

Take care

tal


me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.