H never came back 5

[MichelleLT]

I'm totally amazed this hasn't locked yet...by saying that I probably will jinx myself and get it locked in the middle of brainstorming necessary discussion items lol.

1. I can't handle OW being involved/around/friends/anything - I think I need to take a very "I" approach to that and just say that it hurts me and my patience is not unlimited.
2. I think a follow-up on that is that neither one of us can really give this a fair shot with torn loyalties and OP involved - not sure how to keep this focused on me as he already feels guilty enough w/o me rubbing his nose in it but I feel it is a very important point.
3. I'm getting tested again in a few months at my annual gyno (let me tell you, I'm soooooo (not) looking forward to that lol) but he also needs to do the same, and I'd like OW to do so as well.
4. Regardless of test results, he'd better get used to the idea of using protection (at least for the foreseeable future) and I don't particularly care how much he hates it.
5. That I need honesty from him about the past and present.