He's not coming...thank God. But I just got into it with wife on the phone at work. She is trying to dig into my time with the kids and I refused to let her. I made plans to take my kids to a theme park and she is pissed. I stayed calm but she gets so angry with me. She said"I can't believe I was married to you for 17 years!" That hurts bad...but I don't answer to it. She wants to control me and I won't let her...it gets her sooo angry. I have tried to do things she wants, like some work on our house, so we can sell it. Nothing seems to satisfy her. She constantly complains I do this or don't do that. Should I stop trying to satisfy her? I mean I am trying to be good to her but she's never happy. I told her two weeks ago she could use the season passes to take the kids to the theme park and she backed out and said she couldn't so i took a day off to take them and now she's mad at me...meanwhile she is going on a overnight trip with OM Wed. She was letting into me and I told her she was the one being selfish because she could do that trip for herself instead of using that day to do something with the kids.....that was probably not good DBing but my blood pressure was skyrocketing so that was nice compared to what I wanted to say.....uuuuggggghhhhh...how long is this going to go on?????!!!
H 42 W 37 M17 T20 years 3 daughters 11,11,14 seperated 11/26/07 EA neighbor/ moved in w/ him 2/8 Filed for D 01/08 finalized soon