Yes we are still M. H wants a D but I am making it go as slowly as possible. His OW is 27, he met her just after he left me (when he left he had a different OW who was 22 at the time), they have been living together virtually since day one and they have been engaged for nearly 2 years (hence my lack of hope). I haven't stepped outside the bounds of my M vows and for the forseeable future don't intend to.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
