Sounds really good. Look at where you were intially to where you are now. I know it is easy to not know if things are progressing or not. But compare your sitch to weeks or months ago, I am sure things are getting better. For me, I am about 3 months into this. Things are far from perfect now, but when I remember month 1 we were at each others throats and the D word was tossed around, the month 2 she was definately wanting a S. Now month 3... you saw a bit when you looked at my thread. Much better. But still not good.
Look forward to these `family` opportunities with H as a time to show him what you are made of! Show him what he is missing out on! You are looking and feeling better than when he was with you before, and he is in an apartment by himself. Who has it better?
Steve
Me 27 W 30 M 2yrs/ T 5yrs Expecting our first child Sept 08 warning bomb (has feelings for someone) 21/12/08 I found out about OM (by snooping) 14/1/08 Living together.