Hi Arthur,

Do not leave the house if you can help it. I agreed to move out and have regretted it ever since. Patience is the best advice I can give. Practice GAL, 180s, anything you can do for yourself. Definitely read DR. I’ve only been doing this for 4 months but have come to realize that DBing is really about making things better for your self. The WAS will notice the small, incremental changes, but isn’t exactly going to give you immediate feedback or positive reinforcement. The strength will have to come from your own intestinal fortitude. It is a process. It takes time. Have patience, time is on your side. Good luck buddy, you’re in my prayers.


Me: 35
WAW: 28
Bomb: 1/13/08
S: 1/14/08
D filed: 2/24/08
D final on 7/07/08

Do your damndest in an ostentatious manner all the time. -George S. Patton



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