H never came back 5

[Sugar and Spice]

What do you feel? What do you want? You are a smart woman, put on paper and then take it from there.

I told my H at one point that I was very clear about what I wanted and that I loved him and was willing to do the work required to fix our marriage if we could get to that point.

Go with your strengths and it doesn't hurt to do a little planning, but you need to be clear in your mind about what it is you want to say and how it would be best to say it.