I am in the same boat. My H left about a month in a half ago. He's not going out and telling anyone and neither am I. But, a few times people have asked him about us and he didn't say anything. Is that a good sign?? He basically said he doesn't want to hear it because he has already gotten so much slack from the few people who do know. My H has just lost himself. He doesn't know who he is or what he wants in life. And it really stinks that there is nothing I can do but let him see what's out there and hope that in the end, our 1 y/o and I are what he is seeking... but I don't know if I can just sit around and wait like many people have here... I still want more of a family and I have my doubts about him coming back.
SJV Me 27 H 27 M 10/14/05 Together 11 Yrs Bomb 2/16/08 Seperated 2/25/08 D1 H moved back in-6/08 H lost his job 7/14/08 OW back in picture I told H my heart was done 7/21/08 I filed for D 9/8/08
"Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values"
