Arthur, sorry you are here. My main question that I have for you is do you really want to work this out? If you do and I believe that to be true since you are here on the boards, I would suggest that whatever your wife has complained about your R in the past that you start making changes to those issues. She will not see them at first, it will take time and she will probably be scared to acknowledge that you are really changing or is it a put on to win her back.
You do have a plus that many on these boards do not have, you are still with W and in the house. She will be able to see these changes much clearer being there. Think this through and really try to decide what it is she is complaining about and start trying to fix that first.
