This just gets better and better. H met us at the park so he could pitch to S and give him some hitting/pitching practice. I didn't hear from him so I knew he was with OW, thats his MO. Anyway, I get a phone call from him at about 8pm and he sounds really upset. I guess he and OW got into it about who she has been with, and she tried to get out of the car while moving, ran out into the middle of traffic and then refused to get back in the car and walked home... He calls me and says, "You haven't been with anyone have you?" I told him no, that I'm a married woman and don't do that and he told me we are separated. I pointed out to him that he is separated and that I have made it VERY clear what I want and seeing someone else would not further that along. More drama...drama...drama... H says that OW will probably never speak to him again and that she will definately take him to the DA now, like he could believe that she wouldn't in the first place. OK! I know I should try and be supportive, but the little devil inside says, "Good, I hope you both get a taste of what you've been dishing out for the last 5 months."
So he calls back to tell the kids goodnight and tells me at the end that he doesn't want to talk to anyone and that I can call him with the results of my tests. WHATEVER!!!!!!! Even better, eureka, how 'bout I don't call you...bastard!
I don't know what I did in my last life, but it must have been pretty damn bad. I am just so over all of this crap right now. He wants silence, he is going to get silence. I just need a break. I can't take it, this is just too much like Jr. High for me. These two are nuts
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option